Why Won't My Kid Keep Their Glasses on? (And a Simple Trick That Works)

If you’ve ever left the optical shop feeling hopeful, only to find your child refusing to wear their new glasses by the end of the day, you’re not alone. As someone who works in a practice that fits and dispenses glasses to kids daily, I’ve heard every version of this story — and lived it alongside countless parents.

Whether it’s “they’re itchy,” “they don’t look cool,” or just the dreaded “I don’t wanna,” the struggle is real.

So Why Don’t Kids Want to Wear Their Glasses?

There are a few common reasons:

• Discomfort: The fit may need adjusting, especially for little ones who are still growing fast.

• Self-consciousness: Kids may feel like they stand out, and not in a good way.

• Lack of understanding: Young kids may not realize how much the glasses are helping them, especially if they’ve always seen the world a bit blurry.

• Boredom: Let’s be real — glasses aren’t always the most “fun” accessory for a kid. But, they can be!

A Simple, Fun Fix That’s Actually Working

After seeing so many kids resist their glasses, I wanted to come up with something that made them excited to wear them. So I created glasses charms — interchangeable, bendable, and colorful slide-on accessories that attach to the arms of kids’ glasses. Think of them like mini jewelry for their frames! From dinosaurs and trucks, to flowers and foods + more.

The result? Kids who once tossed their glasses across the room are now showing them off at school, trading charm designs with friends, and (most importantly) wearing them without a fight.

Why It Works

• Personalization = ownership. Letting kids choose their own charm gives them a sense of control and identity.

• Visual reward. Just like stickers on a chore chart, a charm gives them something to look forward to.

• Playful, not clinical. Glasses become something to accessorize — not just a “medical device.”

Tips for Parents Struggling With This Stage

1. Let your child pick their frames (within reason). Ownership is key.

2. Start slow — even 10-15 minutes of wear at a time builds tolerance.

3. Use praise generously — make wearing glasses a big deal in a good way.

4. Consider adding a glasses charm to make them fun, not just functional.

You CAN Do This!

Helping a child adjust to glasses is a journey — but it doesn’t have to be a battle. Sometimes, all it takes is a little creativity (and sparkle!) to turn resistance into enthusiasm.

If you’re curious about the charms or want to know more about how they work, I’d love to share more. Because at the end of the day, the goal is simple: helping kids see better — and feel great doing it.